A clear starting choice
See what we would choose for the stated age and situation, with the reasoning beside it.
KidPhoneSetup turns scattered settings into a calm, step-by-step plan: what to configure, what to choose, why it matters, and when to change it.
Use a clear starting setup, then review it as your child gains experience.
iPhone and Android use different accounts, controls, approval flows, and terminology. Start with the guide that matches the child’s actual device.
Work through the Child Account, Family Sharing, Screen Time, apps and purchases, web content, communication, privacy, and ongoing reviews.
See the iPhone setup guideWork through the child Google Account, Family Link, app approvals, screen time, browsing, location, permissions, and device-specific checks.
See the Android setup guideA parent rarely needs another feature list. They need a practical starting point for this child and a clear explanation of the tradeoffs.
See what we would choose for the stated age and situation, with the reasoning beside it.
See where readiness, school needs, or household rules may justify a different choice.
Confirm settings that may already be active instead of assuming every protection starts off.
These guides explain the recommended starting choice, what the child experiences, the control’s limits, and when to review it. Use a paid guide when you want the complete tap-by-tap setup in one sequence.
Choose the device, plan the handoff, compare iPhone and Android, and build a review path.
Explore first-phone setup →Child Account, Family Sharing, Ask to Buy, Screen Time, web, communication, and location.
Explore iPhone decisions →Family Link, Play approvals, Chrome, time, location, school accounts, and handset gaps.
Explore Android decisions →Chromebook, Windows, Mac, browser accounts, school access, and control boundaries.
Explore computer setup →Choose between YouTube Kids and supervised YouTube, then configure content, history, autoplay, time, and shared screens.
Choose the YouTube experience →Link the parent account, then review games, communication, connections, spending, time, and the 30-day check-in.
Configure Roblox deliberately →Choose the play route, review friends and communication, and troubleshoot multiplayer without opening every online option.
Plan Minecraft before play →
Every guide is designed as a field guide, not an ebook: a pre-handoff checklist, recommended choices, exact configuration steps, what the child experiences, and when to review each decision.
Give the child a manageable starting point, watch how it works, and add freedom when the evidence—not a birthday alone—supports it.
Begin with clear limits, known contacts, intentional downloads, and parent-owned recovery.
Loosen one choice at a time when the child consistently handles the existing setup well.
Keep age-appropriate oversight and conversation while the child takes on more responsibility.
Use the 12-decision checklist to gather accounts, choose your starting rules, and identify the settings that need attention on iPhone or Android.
“Do I know what the device will allow—and what my child will see?”
That is the useful test. Configuration is not a guarantee of safety; it is a way to make access deliberate, understandable, and easier to review.